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Positive thinking in the workplace is literally mandatory if successful career building is the goal. The upwardly-mobile business person does more than just show up on time and do a reasonably-good job. He or she must have a mental attitude geared toward excellence in everything done for employer, customer or client and focus on solutions to problems, rather than the problems themselves. They must understand that problems are temporary and that positive results are always possible despite momentary roadblocks.

Positive thinking produces a positive attitude and should be used with the boss, workplace colleagues and virtually everybody involved with the company’s products or services. A positive attitude is especially called for when things don’t go right and that happens in every job on occasion. Whining, complaining and throwing one’s hands up are indications of negative thinking and are unproductive. Instead a positive solutions orientation will be instrumental in overcoming problems.

Men and women just starting out on a career path will always be subject to assignments where they don’t feel secure in their knowledge or experience. The negative thinker responds with ” Oh No! This is way beyond me. I can’t do it.” Conversely, the positive thinker tells himself or herself ” Well, this is a challenge. I don’t really understand it yet, but I will fill in the gaps and move ahead.” They then seek counsel from more experienced colleagues or do the fact-finding research necessary to understand and implement the assignment. It’s all just a matter of attitude!

This is where the all important self-talk comes into the picture. Positive thinking requires that you always use words like “I can”, “I will” and I’m ready” in lieu of giving yourself all the reasons why you can’t. Perhaps equally important, always remember that when you are positive and have that aura about you in business, it is readily apparent to the people you work with and especially to your supervisor. Upward mobility (success) comes much more readily to the employee that is positive than it ever does to the negative thinker.

There is a lot of help available to guide your efforts to become an effective positive thinker. A check on the Internet will produce many successful instructional and motivational programs on the subject that are offered from professionals with long experience in the subject. Some of this information is offered free while others are available in the form of nominally-priced audio programs on CD or via video. There are also many e-books to be found that cover the subject of positive thinking for business success very thoroughly.

Positive Thinking Magazine is published by the Center for Positive Thinking, the organization founded by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale more than sixty years ago. Based in Pawling, New York, the magazine carries on the Center’s and Dr. Peale’s work to promote the concept of positive thinking as a major step toward personal happiness, success, health and peace of mind that adds up to an optimum quality of life.

The editorial thrust of Positive Thinking Magazine is to provide articles in every issue that describe the vital role positive thinking plays in our attitudes. Articles cover every major area of life including family, work, friendships, community, health and spirit in terms of how positive thinking influences mindsets and personal achievements. Regular tips are published on how to be a positive thinker and thus reap the rewards of a change for the better in your life.

Positive Thinking Magazine extolls the joys in our lives, whether big or small, and encourages readers to take the steps necessary to achieve a happier, healthier and more joyous existence. Articles in the magazine are upbeat and uplifting and include good ideas for outstanding vacation destinations, fun quizzes, delicious recipes and ideas for homemakers. It also heralds stories about positive people who have made and are making a difference in their lives and the lives of others as well.

The empowering, real-life stories and other editorial make Positive Thinking Magazine must reading for anyone who desires to improve their daily lives by utilizing the proven principles of Dr. Peale’s lifelong commitment to positive thinking as a beneficial mindset for everyone. The Editors of the magazine are quick to point out that “We are people like you-presumably- who believe that how we think about lives pretty much affects how they turn out. That living a positive lifestyle is the best way to avoid a negative one.”

Positive Thinking Magazine is published bi-monthly. A one-year subscription (6 issues) is priced at just $15.00 and a 100% refund is guaranteed for all undelivered issues to any subscriber not satisfied with the magazine.

Some people insist that positive thinking is dangerous to you, although they are not in the majority on this. But the disbelievers could know something. After all, just about everything good also has something to worry about. However, any pitfalls notwithstanding, the basic premise of being a positive person isn’t wrong. You just need to understand the ground rules.

There is one obvious danger related to positive thinking, that being kidding yourself into thinking everything is okay when it is anything but okay. There are, of course, certain obviously-negative situations that must be faced up to and dealt with whether you like it or not. The key here, is not to let one bad circumstance cloud your vision and optimism about other future issues. Then too, most bad things can still be responded to with a positive, problem-solving approach best achieved by thinking through the problem and the options available to solve it. That is a positive thinking approach applied to a negative issue.

In general, if you approach life with positive direction, the best way to confront any problem is to ask yourself: What do I want to accomplish?; what solutions are possible under the circumstances?; and what solution is the most practical for me?. This kind of self talk or self questioning almost always leads to the right answer.

Most critics of positive thinking believe it is self-delusional and they can be right in some situations. If you embrace positive thinking improperly, and refuse to face facts that are plainly before you, that is either deluding yourself or being in a state psychologists call denial. Neither is a good thing. You can be a positive thinker and still be a realist at the same time. Positive thinking is a way of looking at things, but not always necessary as a solution.

Critics also sometimes say that positive thinking takes away your awareness, self trust and intelligence. Not if you don’t let it. All those personal assets can be applied in a positive way and to great advantage. Just because you have a positive attitude certainly doesn’t mean you won’t trust your own intelligence and good sense in analyzing a problem.

All this being said, the pitfalls aren’t the result of positive thinking per se. Instead they are really the result of not applying the ground rules of positive thinking properly in some situations.

Well excess of anything may be dangerous but you still must be positive to face any kind of situation in life.

Positive thinking is really a rather simple concept to grasp. By definition, it is merely “the adoption of a mental attitude that lets one focus on thoughts and images that will lead to growth, success, happiness and health.” Of course, defining a concept is often far easier than applying it to one’s life, especially after years of negative thinking. The good news is that tens of thousands of people are successful each year in making the adjustment to a positive mindset that gives them the ability to anticipate a successful outcome from every situation they undertake.

Despite the fact that millions of people worldwide have reaped the benefits of positive thinking over the years, and that medical science has actually proven that it is advantageous, there are still those who think that the whole idea is ridiculous. And there are those who, despite the fact that they accept positive thinking as a concept, are unable to apply it to their own lives. Part of this is due to inadequate commitment, while still another part arises from the fact that many negative thoughts are protective in that they allow one to avoid possible rejection and failure. When this idea is ‘top of mind’ in the subconscious, shifting from negative to positive becomes more difficult but is still doable.

In most cases, positive thinking opens the door to achievement while negative thinking does just the opposite by preventing one from trying to succeed. Both mindsets become a conscious and subconscious habit pattern that defines personality.

Most of the people we meet in our business and personal lives relate more readily to the bright, outgoing individual with a positive atitude. Conversely, they tend to avoid people who radiate an attitude of negativity. This being said, the challenge to becoming a positive thinker comes down to undersanding this and making a sincere, personal commitment to change the way we look at things.

People who have been primarily negative thinkers for many years may not be aware of it and, if they are, haven’t any idea how to change. The first thing to understand is that it took a long time to become negative and you’re no going to change that overnight. To switch one’s mindset to positive will require commitment, lots of inner work and an understanding of just how to re-train your thought processes. Forunately, there is a wealth of good information and instruction that can be readily obtained both in books and from sources on the Internet.

A good start is to agree that positive thinking really works and can bring you more happiness and success than negative thinking. This goes without saying based upon thousands of success stories from those who have done it. Positive thinking is powerful!

The benefits of positive thinking are well known and widely practiced. They are considered “guidelines to success” by most good businessmen, professional athletes and anyone else who wants to achieve all he or she can. However, sometimes it’s not easy to determine just how to go about becoming a truly positive thinker, especially if it represents a major shift in the way you’re used to looking at things.

The steps of positive thinking require a considerable amount of self talk and a continuously positive attitude. Once you learn to do this on a regular basis, you will gain optimism in place of pessimism, a new way of looking at the brighter side of things and, in general, the ability to expect good things to come your way. The necessary steps mean learning to have a positive attitude by finding reasons to smile more; choosing to be happy instead of sad; reading inspiring articles and books; looking at the bright side of life instead of worst-case scenarios; realizing that negative thinking is self destructive; and choosing to remain optimistic. Instead of thinking about and visualizing bad things happening, you’ll be ideating the good probabilities. Eventually, you may come to believe that no obstacle to your progress cannot be moved out of your way.

There are many benefits to be realized by accomplishing this. It will help you achieve personal and business goals and have success; successes will be faster and easier to attain; you will have the ability to inspire yourself and motivate other people and those people will respect you. Perhaps most important of all, you will be happier and have lots more energy. And always remember that a positive attitude says, “I can” while a negative says, “I can’t!” If you think that you can’t, you won’t, because you’ll never really try.

Ask yourself, “Do I really want to be a positive thinker?” If you do want to reap the many benefits of being a positive thinker, it takes a lot more than just telling yourself that everything will be okay. It has to be a conscious decision that is ‘top of mind’ with you all the time. It also has to include putting the fear of failing or rejection safely away in your back pocket for all time and becoming aware only of those good things that will come from your attitudes and efforts.

If you have a personal computer with Internet access, you can be the recipient of a wealth of detailed information about positive thinking written by experts with long experience. Merely type ‘positive thinking’ into your computer’s web browser and click ’search.” It will all be at your fingertips just that easily.